Fathom 34: Biological Belonging



Part 1: A Clinical Explanation for Gas-Lighting One's Self

  • Exploring my SSASS-Y 2026 intention & obsession with labels... continued 😎
  • A new awareness of Internalized Ableism (IA); how forcing myself to be normal ironically led me to psychologically implode at certain points along my lifes' adventure πŸ€”
  • Coalescence into a common denominator... I don't want a label, I just want to BELONG & why belonging matters πŸ’ž 
  • NOTE: The re-labeling system explained in The Reader's Guide πŸ’‘

Part 2: The Joy of Innate Belonging & Acceptance

  • As within, so without; interesting insights into my previous 'Drivers' using this epiphany 🀯 
  • Why all those historical labels never sated my curiosity & desire to understand myself in deeper more meaningful way 🚫
  • Being American in New Zealand, and how I worked to 'Belong' in a country that feels like home πŸ₯€
  • Overcoming weaponised Feedback & accepting that I'm not to everyone's Taste ... I'm different, labelled or no πŸ™

Fathom 33: [My] American Dad!


Part 1: International Travel Tips πŸ›«

  • Previous 'Fathoms' refer to an upcoming surprise trip... so ... Here I am, coming to you live from South Carolina! πŸŽˆπŸŽ‰
  • A few choice medications to ease international travel woes πŸ˜‚πŸ˜Ž
  • Fact, "America Runs on Dunkin'," Broncos & southern hospitalityπŸ΅πŸš™πŸ™
Nothing better than a bible belt coffee! πŸ˜‡

Part 2: 'Humble' American Pie πŸŽ‚

[NOTE: The internet shat itself so the video ends at 5mins, not 6mins πŸ’©]
  • Turns out that previously held internal beliefs mentioned during travels in China & Japan, once discussed, turns out to be false perceptions πŸ˜…πŸ€·
  • Don't hate, validate! πŸ€”πŸ’­πŸ’ž

Part 3: Perceptive Reflections πŸ€”

  • Relational obligations, lest we succumb to confirmation bias πŸ˜…πŸ’©
    • SHARE with open, honest & transparent communication
    • ASK for confirmation instead of creating and/or believing assumptions & perceptions
  • Exploring how past assumptions stunted our relationship & how grateful I am for this opportunity to reconnect... no longer afraid of being American πŸ˜‡πŸ™πŸ’–

Photo Album

USA Surprise! πŸ₯³
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